Oh the good old days were the best were not they. Remember the days before kids' birthday parties became big-budget galas? Why not throw an old-fashioned party for your little birthday girl or boy? Search out classic party games like "Pin the Tail on the Donkey" or get everyone in a circle for "wonder ball."
Sunny out today? How about an egg or water balloon toss or a three-legged race? The potato race is the best deal of all, since it borrows only things you already have on hand – one potato and one spoon for every guest. Whoever reaches the finish line with potato still on spoon wins! Your kids may be shocked that once upon a time, before party favors become a big business, kids decorated their own treat bags. Hand out some paper bags, stickers and crayons, and let the kids fill them during a hunt for penny candy, whistles, tops, and jacks.
Of course, if you have that much room in your yard, you might want to host a garden party. Let the kids run through the sprinkler, dig in the dirt, and spill as much paint and glitter as they like while they decorate earthen ware pots. They can fill them with soil and plant a seed to take home as a memento of the party. The cake is important? Any flavor your child likes iced with chocolate, topped with crumbled chocolate cookie dirt, gummy worms, and candied violets.
Kids love Halloween so much; why not resurrect it for your child's birthday (even if it falls in July)? Most children will love the excuse to drag out their costume once more. If the traditional Halloween game of bobbing for apples now looks more germy than quaint, remember that pumpkin pie never goes out of style – and tastes even better with a birthday candle in the middle. Snap a photo of each guest in costume let them decorate inexpensive frames, and send them home with a party favor worth keeping.
If you're in the mood to host a stylish do but are short on space, steer away from the chains that sell generic part games birthday packages. Only you can say what your little one would most love – a skating party at the local ice rink? A tour of the fire station is always fun. An arts afternoon at a ceramics studio? When you use your imagination, it's easy to plan parties that are frugal and fabulous!